Bad to be single??

......sooo..i was chilling at home watching cartoons with my sister (you shud try watching cartoons sometimes,its relaxing)anyways,my fone rang and i looked at i.d. ...jojo....shes one of my classmates dat i was really gud wit in skul but we hadn't communicated once in the 3 months since graduation,so naturally i was excited,we yarned for a bit den she got down to the true nature of her call..

Jojo: vee,dyu remember dat pic we took on grad day

Me: yeah i do wat happened?

Jojo: and do you remember my cousin dat came back from america

Me: you mean Michael??
(at dis point i already know were dis is going)

Jojo: yeah err, i dunno how to say this

Me:he wants to go out on a date with me??

Jojo: yh and i gave him your number and i know you don't like it and im sorry

...........blah blah blah...iv alredy made the point i wanted to make
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.......>>>anyways the micheal did call,and for joans sake i gave him a chance but he ended up not being my kind of person


thats what my best friends call 'THE EXCUSE'.....because iv bin single for almost a year now and have turned down no less than 25 guys because they were 'not my type'

....wen i say not my type...i mean to say that their ideas are too different from mine to make any sense at all....

e.g...i met one guy at a party...for privacy's sake ill call him Tee. so anyways,he was the friend of a friend and we danced a bit and the whole ish,sha we got to talkn and he decided that the best way to woo me was to impress me with money talk......and so on and on he talks...bout his phones...and his cars(his fathers cars) and houses and all the counties hes traveled to and offering to buy anything i set my eyes on if it so pleased me...i politely excused myself and avoided him thru-out the party but through the mystical power of boys,he still managed to get my number and worse yet my address and the worst of all fact was that he lived in walking distance of my house...
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...........i wont bore you wiv d details sha but my friends almost ate me alive,dey ddnt want to understand how i cud pass up a cute rich guy dat wanted to spend all his time and money on me(deir words not myn)....
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or another cute guy whom i shall call Em,he was only interested in my pretty face and how much he cud get from me..he was basically a sex-addict...everytym he called d first thing he wud ask me is 'what are you wearing'...i mean no 'hello' or 'how are you doin'....it was gross
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then der was Es (i know im not good at codenames lol)...he was such a pest,he tried the money method,it ddnt work den he began stalking me...he made my life a living hell....he showed up almost everywhere i went,called and textd me till i was scared of turning on my fone...he sent me huge amounts of credit daily and sent other gifts thru my friends....he was a pretty boy (one of those boys dat r so pretty dat yu wish dey wer girls)and my friends thought he was being cute wen i complained of his stalking but they only spoke lyk dat because they were gettn monetary benefits from Es to convince me to go out with him....i went thru dis for 5 and a half good months before i lost it on him wen he conveniently showed up at an outing i went for...then he reduced it but it still took him another month before he finally accepted dat nothing on earth would make me go out with him and dat was just this june...he still texts and calls but its lyk once in two weeks now....so im hoping the end is near..lol...THIS IS REAL..DNT THINK I MADE IT UP
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.....>>>My friend Ronnie thinks im hot-tempered because i dont have a boyfriend
.....>>Naomi thinks dat il feel better about being single if she tells me every detail bout her boyfriend and their numerous escapades
.....>>Kechi thinks i blog because i need a boyfriend (not that she has one..lol)


.......then recently a very good guy friend told me dat "people" said i liked playing 'hard to get' cuz im pretty....it upset me alot because i hate the words and because nobody ever sees things from my point of view.My friends say i have 'high standards' but i dont....
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...... MY TYPE OF GUYS are basically just simple guys dat can do simple things lyk make me smile,listens...etc...basically the same things as almost every other girl.
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..they don't have to be cute because i have met ALOT of cute guys with no sense,im a teen,i have parents and im not looking for a husband just yet so i don't really care whether he/his father has money or not and he doesn't need to stalk me...
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.........its not my fault that i havnt met a nyc person yet,im single and im okay with it...if i meet a nyc person along the way then yay me but if not then im perfectly okay just the way i am....
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....iv really written a lot more than i planned to,lol
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gotta go
see ya on the next post
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.....::GaGa::......